COLUMBIA, S.C. – A Mother’s Heartbreak and Call for Awareness
Last week, Tierra Hamer, a vibrant 23-year-old woman from Columbia, tragically lost her life after driving her car into the Broad River. Since that devastating day, her mother, Shanequa Scott, has been left with a heart full of grief and a mind racing with questions as she navigates through this unimaginable loss. Speaking to reporters, she expressed not only her sorrow but also her deep frustration in search of answers about her daughter’s situation.
Finding Strength in Grief
In an emotional interview, Scott shared what her daughter meant to her and how she felt compelled to raise awareness about domestic violence. Friends and neighbors have suggested that Tierra had been a victim of violence, and her mother is determined to make sure her story is heard. “Don’t wait until this moment, don’t wait until your story can’t be told by your own voice,” Scott urged, emphasizing the importance of seeking help when in dangerous relationships. “Let your voice be heard, don’t be afraid to talk.”
During a recent meeting with representatives from the Richland County Sheriff’s Department, Scott and her attorney, Simone Martin, sought answers regarding what transpired in the days leading up to Tierra’s tragic death. “I’m hurt, I’m broken, I’m angry, I’m disappointed,” Scott shared, conveying the overwhelming feelings any parent would experience in such a heartbreaking situation.
A Mother’s Plea for Accountability
As they reviewed body camera footage from the day of the incident and also from days prior, Scott couldn’t help but feel a wave of sadness for the overlooked pleas of help her daughter had voiced. On September 8, Tierra had called 911, claiming that someone she identified as an ex-boyfriend had taken her car keys. Despite her distress, she reportedly received little assistance. “In the videos, you see a young woman who is terrified, yet frustrated, that despite her many requests for help, no one came to her rescue,” Martin stated, reflecting the challenges many victims face when seeking help in domestic violence situations.
As Scott talked about the incident on September 11, it was clear the pain was still fresh. On that day, deputies responded to a call concerning a civil dispute at Hamer’s apartment. Neighbors reported hearing her express fears about her ex-boyfriend possibly harming her. However, after a series of distressing interactions, which left Hamer visibly upset, deputies were unable to take any actions. “My baby would have been here if they had just listened,” Scott lamented, emphasizing the importance of listening to victims.
A Life Remembered
Tierra was much more than just a victim; she was a caring person who made a significant impact on others. Hamer was described by her mother as a “helper”, someone who deeply cared for others’ well-being. Scott shared that she received numerous messages of support after Tierra’s passing, telling stories of how Tierra had helped strangers in distress, one even surmising that “Tierra just ran over… and started helping her pull her kids out of the car.”
Tierra had a bright future ahead. She was an exceptional student who dreamed of becoming both a hairdresser and a psychiatrist. “She just wanted to help as many people as she could help,” Scott recalled, and that spirit will live on in the memories of those she touched.
Looking Ahead
As Scott pushes for answers, she remains resolute in her commitment to honor her daughter’s memory. Scott and Martin plan an independent investigation to unearth the truth surrounding Tierra’s death and advocate for potential accountability for those involved. “We still don’t think that we know everything, and we won’t rest until we get the full truth,” Martin asserted.
In the midst of this grief, Scott’s message is clear: help others avoid what her daughter experienced. “Your life matters, you are worthy, and you are not alone,” she reminded all women who may be suffering in silence.
The community mourns the loss of Tierra Hamer. Her wake is planned for Friday in Charleston, with her funeral set for the following day. As her loved ones gather to celebrate her life, they hope that by sharing her story, others will find the courage to seek help.
